All you need is love!

Happy Monday! Another Monday.

Today I went bowling. I really love/appreciate the intense bowlers I see at the lanes. They honestly amaze me. And I feel very incompetent bowling next to them. I throw my little bowling ball down the lane and into the gutters almost immediately and they like stare at the lane and do this crazy shuffle down the lane and look like complete pros.  The only thing I am good at is getting that random back very back corner pin, so if there was a world champion 7 pin bowler, I would be it. TOTES.  


So let's talk about a little life lesson. 1. Learn to love everything about yourself. It took me a while to be completely confident in my own skin. Trust me! 2. The things people say don't matter.

There is this kid at my work, and he isn't my favorite person on the planet...okay I mean, I really don't like him. I am trying so hard to be patient and to be understanding but I am not perfect. And since this is my little personal blog I will just say it. I am snappy at him sometimes when I think he is being immature or out-of-line.

The other day when I was working as a hostess with my friend Sarah he was up there too. At one point Sarah was holding a mint in her hand and I took it out of her hand.

Later this boy came up to Sarah and told her that,
"That would be a big girl thing to do."

Now some of you are reading this and you may be saying, "Holy crap, he's a jerk." or "Holy crap, he's right"
; P

The thing is, I laughed when I heard that. You know why? I know that I am a curvy girl! And I love that about me. I can decide tomorrow I want to lose 90 pounds or decide I want to gain 90 pounds.
And another things is, I ain't gunna cry over a box of Twinkies over it! To be honest, I could probably out run this dude, and I am pretty healthy.

Also, I feel horrible for him. I am so blessed to live the life I live. I have no clue what his life is like. It may be awful. (That's no excuse to make cheep jabs at someone) but you never know someones life.

He probably has not learned to love himself yet. And for that, I pity him.

Anyway. Make goals for yourself, even if it's small ones.

My daily things to make me happy is this:

1. If something awful happens at the beginning, just think, 'If that's the worst thing to happen today, it's gunna be an awesome day!"
2. Don't sweat the things that happened that you cannot control. It's done and focus to make goals for things you can accomplish.
3. Think about things you're grateful for.
4. High five a few people you don't know.
5. Laugh at your mistakes.
6. Remember that no one is perfect, forgive people that do silly things and forgive yourself. Move on.
7. Dance like nuts in your room. (Yeah, I do it.)
8. Love others, and love who you are. 


There are other things but this post is too long. And I really hope someone reads it.

Haha well!

Goodnight everyone. : )